The Most Important Thing I Have Learned…

Through out my life I have been the person who could turn any negative into a positive.  If a situation  was challenging or upsetting, you could count on me to find a silver lining.  Many people applauded my ability to find the good in all things. Even when my mom died suddenly in 2008, I was the first person to tell you the top 10 ...

The Maybe Pile

We spend most of our lives learning how to have more; more friendships, more ‘likes’, more stuff, more degrees, more money, etc.  The other side of that coin is learning how to have less; down-sizing, spring cleaning, ending relationships, etc.  Not only are we ill-equipped in letting go, but we can also experience tremendous resistance, shame, guilt, and sadness. After my mom died it was ...